think outside of the box

Mindset
You will become way less concerned with what other people think of you when you realize how seldom they do
David Foster Wallace
If you know the enemy and you know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in
Sun Tzu
Maybe you have to know the darkness before you can appreciate the light
Madeleine L'Engle
Weird doors open. People fall into things.
David Sedaris